“Compassion
overrides everything. There are people who stand strong
even when there really is no reason for them to stand
strong.” –
what gives strength to a young woman in Cambodia and
how humanity can and does exist everywhere.
Maria
Attard, Director of Operations Phnom Penh, HAGAR,
Phnom Penh, Cambodia
“Why did you decide to do social work in Cambodia
after having been exhausted several times doing social
work all over the world?” we asked Maria, a 30
year old Australian, whose parents migrated from Malta.
“Well, to tell you the truth,
after thinking back and forth a lot about the option
of working for HAGAR in Cambodia, I really didn’t
want to do it first. I even told Pierre Tami, the founder
of HAGAR, that I don’t have enough expertise to
do the job as head of operations. Quite
disappointed about my decision, he gave me another few
days to think it over as he urgently needed me and had
the feeling that I could do the job. The following Sunday
I went to mass, as usual, and heard the priest saying
in the ser-mon: “Sometimes, it is not about the
capable but the avail-able.” What chance did I
have after this?”
Listening to Maria we recognized once more again that
developing work can be extremely intensive and exhausting,
but at the same time, Maria assured us that it is giving
her great satisfaction again and again. Sometimes she
just needs to have a little rest and some time for herself.
Let
us give you a short impression of our lively and very
interesting discussion with Maria and explain why she
plans to acquire some business knowledge next year.
You might be able to read more about her and her interesting
life in our book “MyImpact”.
Maria
Attard’s selected quotations:
“I
am not a special person. The women and children we face
every day are the special people. They are survivors
of unbelievable circum-stances. They deserve to be ad-mired.”
“I
always felt strongly for social justice and was driven
by it to do social work. It is not a sacrifice for me,
but rather a duty.”
“My parents sacrificed a lot by staying in Australia
for me to get a good childhood, education and opportunities
in life. In a way I am wasting their sacrifice by not
taking the opportunities they dreamed of for me. But
helping these people is more valuable to me than earning
big money.”
“My
dream has been to go to Africa, so, after graduation
I volunteered in a program in rural Kenya. On the second
day there I witnessed someone being stoned. My Kenya
experiences significantly changed my life.”
“In
the last years I learned a lot about humanity and compassion.
And I have seen and felt it in some very difficult and
violent areas. Imagine how much compassion is needed
in an area where 80% of people have AIDS. Some people
just stand strong. And there is no reason for them to
stand strong. Except compassion.”
“Sometimes,
what I am doing is not easy. Sometimes, I would prefer
to go home and be with my family. I believe it’s
God who gives me strength and fulfilment. Also, wor-king
with our Khmer colleagues is an enriching experience.
They went through awful things themselves and here they
are, helping others with unbelievable passion. Their
hearts are going to change Cambodia.”
Some background on Maria Attard:
Maria’s parents migrated from Malta to Australia,
where she grew
up in a migrant community. That’s where she feels
home, that’s where she did her ba-chelor of arts
and graduated in economic development. After college
she volunteered for 6 months in Kenya to help in the
rural development. Coming back exhausted, she decided
to work with mentally ill people in Australia in parallel
to her studies.
After graduation, Maria became a Youth Ambassador and
has been sent for one year to Cambodia. She worked for
the Red Cross as a Youth Program Advisor before being
asked to join Hagar. Again and again she planed to go
back to Australia for a longer period but again and
again did the different assignments and challenges keep
her abroad. By the end of 2005 she plans to continue
her education in Australia and to spend some time with
her family.
Some background on HAGAR:
HAGAR was started more than 10 years ago by Pierre Tami
with the vision that all Cambodian people will live
in a just and peaceful society that cares with its heart
and encourages dignity and prosperity. Hagar focuses
on fos-tering hope for vulnerable women and children
in crisis through holistic, transformational development
and crea-tive initiatives.
To
break the cycle of po-verty, HAGAR intervenes in the
lives of vulnerable mothers and children by offering
prevention, reha-bilitation, and reintegra-tion programs.
Rehabilitation: Providing the vulnerable mothers and
children with the necessary life skills and income-earning
capacities to transform their lives through a temporary
home; counselling; literacy, numer-acy, and health and
nutrition training, vocational skills training, schooling
and day care.
Prevention: Instituting interventions that will stave
off women's downward slide into destitution such as
training in literacy and numeracy, income earning skills,
children's and women's rights, or job placement.
Reintegration: Mothers and their children are re-estab-lished
in mainstream society through livelihood oppor-tunities
in agriculture, self employment, garment industry sewing,
or in Hagar's micro-businesses.
If you would like to engage with the work of Maria Attard
or get to know more about HAGAR, please visit www.hagarproject.org
or, for more specific opportunities, contact joanna.stefanska@myimpact.ch
or wolfgang.hafenmayer@myimpact.ch
directly
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